Spirituality and leadership

Leadership as sainthood

Sainthood's so terribly misunderstood.  We think of little carved statues or untouchable characters from a dusty book. But if we can't point to a saint around us, we're a pitiful people.  More likely, we're just blind.  Saints are everywhere, but unfortunately, they're not often where we need them to be . . . in positions of leadership.  Don't get me wrong, ordinary saints lead.  But we can use a few more in positions of official leadership.  Too few of us have desired or required leaders who are saints---women and men of humble virtue.  Consequently, we've gotten the kind of leaders we deserve, and we've become the kind of communities we've become.

Thomas Merton, who led us with remarkable wisdom through his pen and his prayers, couldn't see the kind of leadership the twentieth century needed until he was pushed.

As a carousing and ambitious young man walking the streets of New York City, he wondered out loud to friend about his sense of vocation.

His friend told Merton he needed to become a saint.

"A saint?" Merton replied.  "But how?"

"By desiring it," said his friend.

And that's what he became.

In the fourteenth century---a century not much different from the one facing us today--the anonymous author of the little book, The Cloud of Unknowing, wrote: "It's not what you are, nor what you have been, that God looks at with his merciful eyes, but what you desire to be."

I'm praying for a new generation of leaders who will desire what we really need, the only thing that will guide us through this tumultuous twenty-first century . . . sainthood . . .in our homes and offices, schools and public places.

Spirituality and leadership: what's on a leader's mind

So many things crowd into a leader's mind.  Consequently, leaders can be terribly absent people . . . distracted, busy, fretful, pushy.  You've been around such leaders, and you follow them only if you have to.  Usually the only authority they have for leading is the power of their position.  If you're lucky you've also been around leaders who you'd follow anywhere.  They are rare, but we know them when we're around them.  They have presence.  They are healers---no matter what kind of work they do.  They possess a presence of mind. Here's a message from Christ, inviting you into the only kind of leadership that really matters.

You are to think of nothing else, only love. You are to want nothing else for another, than that they know My love. You are to have nothing else in your mind or heart when you are with another, only love.

Love them.

See Me stooping, lifting mud in my hands, breathing life into the soul before you, cradling them lovingly as they come to life.

Do that.

This is the kind of leadership that truly matters---whether you're a parent dealing with a troubled teenager, an executive trying to awaken life in your management team, an artist wanting to invite others to see what you see, a politician working for the common good, a cop trying to break up a domestic fight.

Fail to do this, and you might push people around, get some stuff done, make a pile of money, build an empire.  But you're not going to take those around you where they need to go.

Spirituality and leadership: align yourself with the true grain of the universe

Unless a leader knows loss, a leader isn't leading. It's how you deal with loss that matters.

To be united with Christ in his passion means to suffer loss with him. To be united with him, you cannot wield power as the world does. Anger has no place. Controlling others is excluded. Leadership is inverted---the ways of worldly leadership are unmade. You learn to suffer rather than protect yourself, to serve rather than be served, to lose rather than win.

But to what end, what purpose?

Does the end even matter, really?

No, worry about the end and you're already trapped.  Instead, you are to simply live as Jesus lives rather than to live conditionally---that is, attached to goals, outcomes, some self-invented-end. You are to wield only the power of secret prayer, of a heart united to Love.  You are to lead from where you are.  You are to be radically present, even to loss.  Especially to loss.

So, be present to loss, to pain.  Dare this glorious humiliation of yourself, and line yourself up with the true grain of the universe, the real current of creation's flow.